Brian DeVilbiss Family

Final Post

2010-02-08T06:43:00.000-08:00

Brian's memorial service was well attended with around 350 friends and neighbors doing a lot of singing and sharing. This is probably not how we would have chosen to end this blog but Brian is well now, better in fact than he could have ever been on this earth. I will continue to post comments you want to pass on to Jennifer. Thanks again for all who prayed and participated in other ways. I even met one of Brian's doctors at the service who is starting an education fund for Carrie Ann and Joseph. Continue to pray for the ongoing needs of Jennifer and the kids. God Bless you all.

I will add the very first photo of Brian. This was taken before he left Korea with his full Korean name for his travel document.

Brian's Slide Show

2010-02-04T09:25:00.000-08:00

You can copy this link into your browser and see the slides that will be shown for Brian's memorial service.

http://picasaweb.google.com/larrydevilbiss/brian#

Obituary

2010-02-01T20:45:00.000-08:00

Palmer resident Brian Lee DeVilbiss, age 49, died Friday, January 29, 2010 at St. Elias Specialty Hospital in Anchorage with his wife Jennifer at his side. A private graveside burial has already taken place at the Palmer Pioneer Cemetery.

A memorial service will be at 2 PM on Saturday, February 6, 2010 at Lazy Mountain Bible Church in Palmer.

Brian was born April 23, 1960 in Seoul, Korea, and adopted by Ralph and Maxine DeVilbiss in 1963. He graduated from Palmer High School in 1979. He also studied and worked at the Evangelical Institute of Greenville, SC.. He became very distinguished in the Valley as a self taught diesel mechanic.

He married Jennifer Clements on July 28, 1998 in Palmer. One of Brian and Jennifer's favorite quotes is from their friend and teacher the late Mr. Joseph Carroll, "All is in Christ, by the Holy Spirit for the glory of God. All else is NOTHING!"

Brian is survived by his wife Jennifer, daughter Karianne, son Joseph, brothers Larry, Ray, and Billy, father and mother-in-law Tom and Shirley Clements, brothers-in-law Scott Clements and Thomas A. Clements- all of Palmer and many nephews, nieces, cousins, and many beloved brothers and sisters in Christ and close friends.

Brian was preceded in death by his father and mother Ralph and Maxine DeVilbiss, his sister Susan Herr, and his nephew Stephen DeVilbiss.

Memorial Service

2010-02-01T14:12:00.000-08:00

Jennifer has announced that a memorial service for Brian will be at 2 PM on Saturday, February 6 at the Lazy Mountain Bible Church in Palmer.

She also indicated that gifts in leu of flowers could be directed to the Evangelical Institute- a cause close to Brian's heart.

Evangelical Institute

700 North Parker Road,

Greenville, SC 29609

Phone 864 678 4903

E-mail: office@grcomin.org

If any of you have pictures of Brian that we could incorporate into a slide show for his service and also this blog please contact me at carrots@mtaonline.net or call 907 355 0733. Thanks.

Dust to Dust

2010-01-31T17:08:00.000-08:00

This afternoon at 3 PM we laid Brian's body to rest in the Palmer cemetery. This was primarily a family event. Officiating were the pastors from the Church in the Wildwood. Details about a memorial service will follow.

Present With the Lord

2010-01-29T17:31:00.000-08:00

Jennifer just called to say that Brian went to be with the Lord at 3:53 PM this afternoon- Friday the 29th. She was by his side holding his hand.

There will be more details about a memorial service later.

Dr. Lester Speaks

2010-01-24T18:34:00.000-08:00

Family members have requested that I provide a statement about Brian's medical condition since our multiple discussions over this week. I have had the distinct pleasure to care for Brian on several occasions while at St. Elias during the last few months. Unfortunately, Brian has progressively deteriorated despite all of our best medical efforts. In the last few weeks, it became obvious, that Brian was not going to recover to any level of significant function. The "Brian" that everyone remembers and loves, is not the Brian that is here today. Brian has significant deficits in his brain function from his previous infection(s) and a newly suspected stroke to his brainstem. As a result he is markedly impaired. His respirations are erratic, he is unable to communicate, he does not make any purposeful movements, and he is a shell of his former self. Many discussions with family and loved ones were held at the hospital over this very difficult week for Brian. Based upon decisions from family members who felt they knew what Brain would have wanted, he was made DNR (do not resuscitate). I believe Brian's wishes are being upheld by his devoted family and that the right decision is being made to make him comfortable, and not provide any further life sustaining treatment. Brian's medical condition is terminal, but he appears to be at peace. I believe Brian would be proud of his family's support, unrelenting devotion, and many prayers. It has been a privilege to care for Brian and interact with loving family members. I hope this statement is able to provide a since of peace for those who loved Brian. God Bless.

DNR Status

2010-01-20T08:58:00.000-08:00

At one o'clock in the afternoon yesterday Brian stopped breathing. Shayne had been with him about 9 AM on his carrot run and I had been with him about 11 AM on my weekly egg run. His breathing was erratic and forced so I went to the nurse who took me to Dr. Lester. He informed me that Brian's functions had been deteriorating for the last three days and he was getting ready to notify the family. He was concerned about the lack of authorization for Do Not Resuscitate status. His opinion was that if Brian's heart stopped the compressions and trauma involved to get it going again would be very hard on his system and to what avail?

I told him that I was ready to let him go and he said he would be contacting the rest of the family later in the day. I wasn't back to Palmer yet when he called and informed that Brian had stopped breathing and they put the respirator on him to try to hold him until the family could get in. About 4PM we were there and spent a good time singing, praying and reading scripture. At 5:40 PM he was taken off the respirator and his feeding tube as Pastor Greg read the 23rd Psalm. During all this time Brian hadn't opened his eyes or responded consciously in any way. He did continue breathing on his own in a very labored and shallow way and was hanging on until I left this morning at 5 AM.

I think all of us have a good feeling knowing that Brian is in God's hands now and not being propped up with our man-made efforts. God knows his days and the length thereof and will call him home when He wills.

St Elias Begins Phase Out

2010-01-06T09:11:00.000-08:00

Yesterday afternoon Jennifer and Ray and Scott and the Associate Pastor from the Church in the Wildwood and myself met with the staff at St. Elias to discuss Brian's future. They are licensed as a twenty five to thirty day institution and would have to prove they were really helping Brian to justify reimbursement on an ongoing basis. Their analysis (and it pretty well aligned with our observations as visitors) was that for the last two weeks Brian's neurological responses have actually been declining. In the absence of infection or other contributing factors this would suggest that apart from an act of God Brian will not respond to therapy or get better.

They had three suggestions - hospice, nursing home, or assisted living. If he is moved into an extended care environment they recommended replacing the flap on his skull so it is not so vulnerable. The social worker is going to see what options are available in the Palmer area so Jennifer can know what all her options are. They were firm that Brian would not survive on his own if his feeding tube were removed.

We need to pray that the Lord will guide Jennifer and those around her.

End of Year 2009

2009-12-29T13:39:00.000-08:00

Brian opened his eyes once this morning while I was there.

I talked with his nurse who was a very sympathetic fellow who expressed the opinion that Brian is less responsive to the staff as time goes by. He was very verbal about the importance at this time in Brian's development that he have visitors that he knows. This will generate regeneration and motivation on Brian's part. As the photo indicates, you need to pretty well get covered to have access. His photo is not flattering but should stimulate us to prayer and hopefully we will see him sitting up and mending soon.

Transfusion

2009-12-19T22:23:00.000-08:00

Jennifer got a call this morning to get her consent to give Brian blood. Evidently his blood count was low. Then she got a call from Alaska Regional where they had transported Brian and wanted permission to do a CT scan. He was showing signs of seizure and they didn't know why. He is back at St Elias now and evidently doing better but the results of the CT are not known.

ICU

2009-12-16T11:08:00.000-08:00

Brian remains in ICU even though his infections are gone and he doesn't need oxygen. Staff says they are just waiting for an ordinary room to open up so they can move him. Jennifer says that Brian knows when they are there. His heart rate drops immediately and he will stroke their hands with his right hand. She says that when they leave his heart rate goes right back up.

A Better Day Coming

2009-12-08T13:19:00.000-08:00

My visit this morning coincided with the nurse giving him his daily shots. She said that Brian is totally off antibiotics now. His respiratory therapist showed up also and says Brian is completely off oxygen with only room air with a little humidity going through the tube. He has a good cough and is able to clear his airways well so may get that blue tube and opening in his throat closed up before long. He opens his eyes when others are in the room but is otherwise unresponsive. I did take it on myself to turn off the hard rock that was playing on his radio and get a hymns CD playing before I left. The lovely sunrise the other morning was a reminder to us all that whether in this life or in the next- the best is yet to come.

Another ER Visit

2009-12-02T06:18:00.000-08:00

At yesterday's visit the nurse informed me that Brian had been at the ER at Alaska Regional for a while on Monday to control bleeding around his foley.

Room 119 St Elias Specialty Hospital

2009-11-25T06:27:00.000-08:00

Brian is back at St Elias. You are still required to treat him as a hazardous material by wearing gloves, gown, and mask. He opened his eyes today and kept them open while I was there but did not squeeze my hand in response. He has a lot of catching up to do.

Medicare did finally qualify Brian so his ongoing needs are covered. The very costly month of August is not covered. That is a concern to Jennifer.

Thank you all for your prayers.

Another Surgery

2009-11-20T10:05:00.000-08:00

Today Brian is getting a shunt installed that will drain the fluid from his cranium to his stomach.

Antibiotic Resistant Infections

2009-11-11T08:53:00.000-08:00

Brian sleeps on in ICU. I visited him yesterday and the nurse confirmed that he has medication resistant infections. Shane was there also. Indication was that Brian will not be leaving ICU anytime soon.

Post Surgery Update

2009-11-05T06:27:00.000-08:00

Jennifer got to spend about ten minutes with Brian yesterday. He was getting wired up for either a EKG or EEG or something like that.

The doctors were pleased with the procedure to remove the infected bone and the state of affairs in the location. I gather that he is still pretty sedated.

Jennifer's car now has a new windshield after the windstorm blew a board through the old one. I noticed that the crew working on the house was installing laminate flooring. Brian is going to be pretty surprised when he goes home!

More Surgery

2009-11-02T21:05:00.000-08:00

Brian is scheduled for surgery tomorrow to take out the bone that was originally removed and then reinserted. It is infected and as I understand it will not go back again.

Back to Regional- Bleekers

2009-10-31T23:03:00.000-07:00

This morning we received a call from Jennifer. At 1:00 AM this morning, Brian was rushed to the Alaska Regional ER for the second time this week. He was having seizures and there is a build up of fluid on his brain. The doctors suspect an infection in the bone flap. Brian was admitted into the Alaska Regional Critical Care Unit.

In addition, Jennifer said that in the wind storm last night, a board blew onto her windshield and put a soft ball size hole into it. She said she had a lot of cleaning up to do today. She is pretty discouraged.
She said she will not be able to make it into Anchorage today to see Brian and asked that others would please take time to visit him for her. Visits to Brian have really tapered off. He is very encouraged by any and all visits. Please consider taking time, on a weekly basis, to just stop in for a short time and encourage Brian.
Please consider what you can do to help this family. Jennifer really needs our support in prayer and encouragement. In addition, the Deacon's are working with her to provide for her financial needs. Please consider giving regularly to the Deacon's Fund to meet the needs of our church family. Lets not get busy and forget this family's needs!

Finally, keep in mind what our Lord Jesus said, "Then the King will say to those on His right hand, 'Come, you blessed of My Father, inherit the kingdom prepared for you from the foundation of the world: for I was hungry and you gave Me food; I was thirsty and you gave Me drink; I was a stranger and you took Me in; I [was] naked and you clothed Me; /I was sick and you visited Me/; I was in prison and you came to Me.' "Then the righteous will answer Him, saying, 'Lord, when did we see You hungry and feed [You], or thirsty and give [You] drink? When did we see You a stranger and take [You] in, or naked and clothe [You]? Or when did we see You sick, or in prison, and come to You?' And the King will answer and say to them, '/Assuredly, I say to you, inasmuch as you did [it] to one of the least of these My brethren, you did [it] to Me/.'" Matthew 25:34-40

Return to Emergency Room

2009-10-31T08:13:00.000-07:00

Thursday evening Jennifer got a call that Brian had been moved from St Elias to Alaska Regional Emergency Room. Spinal fluid had built up on his skull to the point that the stitches were leaking. They drained it off and took him back to St Elias where he was much more alert and responsive.

We did find that the writing on the small white board that we thought might be Brian's was not. He does to some degree but that fine art was not his. Bruce is working with him on it though.

Rehab Progress is Positive

2009-10-28T06:04:00.000-07:00

Jennifer called last night to inform that the occupational therapist had Brian sitting up yesterday. His blood pressure was steady. He did indicate a lot of pain though when range of motion movements were introduced to some of his limbs. It is a reminder that the road to rehabilitation is a painful one that requires a lot of guts and discipline and prayer.

He also has a speech and respiratory therapist working with him. His volunteer writing therapist (Bruce Long) left a little white board with some of Brian's writing on it. (We assume this from analyzing the log where visitors sign in.)

Jennifer says that notes and letters would be especially encouraging at this point. They are such a contrast to the piles of bills that come in the mail.

Their mailing address is:

7968 N. Wolverine Road

Palmer, Alaska 99645

Papa Brian Hushes Kids

2009-10-16T08:57:00.000-07:00

Yesterday's visit found Brian asleep at St Elias Special Care facility. Jennifer and the kids were there so we took a family picture. Jennifer related that the other day Brian was awake and the kids were making some noise so he snapped his right fingers to get them quiet. He is losing a lot of weight with the liquid diet that is pumped straight into his stomach. It has also elevated his sugar levels to the point insulin has to be added to his regimen.

St Elias Here we Come!

2009-10-09T09:52:00.000-07:00

Jennifer called yesterday to say that Brian is now in St Elias.

She also clarified that Brian did not have meningitis. He had pneumonia and it is all cleared up. She says he is back to the level of functionality that he had before the surgery. They do not plan to install a stint at this point but to extract the fluid buildup with a needle and apply a sort of tourniquet to force his body to absorb future fluids. Visitors are welcome at St Elias which is across Tudor from Lowes.

Hi Jennifer

2009-10-04T09:03:00.000-07:00

I heard something very encouraging this week that indicated Brian's capabilities. Prior to his last surgery last Thursday he was being visited by Bruce Long when Bruce gave him a felt marker and asked if he could write. About that time Jennifer walked in. Brian wrote, "Hi Jennifer". Evidently Brian was writing on the back side of an invoice that David Kincaid had so he still has it. I would like to get a picture of it to post.

There has been a flurry of activity between the hospital, Social Services, Social Security, family members, and Brian and Jennifer's attorney to get Brian on Medicaid.

He is still being treated for a serious infection in his last surgery wound. They are talking about putting in a stint to drain it.

Sunday Surprise

2009-09-28T09:53:00.000-07:00

David D. and I visited Brian yesterday and Brian recognized David and squeezed his hand. We noticed that Brian felt warm and a fan was blowing and this morning Jennifer informed me that Brian has meningitis and had a 105 degree temperature. They are pumping him with antibiotics and trying to keep the temperature down with the fan and ice packs. An ongoing concern is going to be that he will not only survive the accident but that he will also survive the hospital! Keep praying.

Bleeker Update 9/25/09

2009-09-27T09:48:00.000-07:00

Jennifer called to give an update on Brian's surgery. Thursday afternoon the doctors replaced the bone in his skull that had been removed. They were pleased with the surgery and with the condition of the brain tissue. The doctors are pleased with Brian's continuing recovery and are planning on having him sitting up in a wheelchair soon. Please continue to pray for his continued recovery and for the legal matters that need to be taken care of. Please keep Jennifer in your prayers as she continues to apply for Medicare for Brian so he can move into rehabilitation. Continue also to pray for her and the children as they are doing homeschooling and a great deal of traveling between Palmer and Anchorage, especially with the weather beginning to change.
Praise be to the Lord who continues to sustain this family in His love and peace and praise to Him for their humble response to this trial and their obedient witness to those they are in contact with through this.

Post Surgery Update

2009-09-26T06:31:00.000-07:00

Jennifer reported that Brian came through surgery just fine. His skull is complete and the Doctors were pleased with the condition of the brain tissue after this time also.

Jennifer is still working with legal issues to get Brian onto medicaid so he can move into rehabilitation. The court has granted guardianship status to Jennifer.

Brian Coming Back Together

2009-09-22T19:15:00.000-07:00

Thursday Brian is to go back to surgery to get his skull cap replaced. He is then to be moved to St Elias for rehabilitation. Stay tuned and keep praying. Jennifer called last night and also informed me that Brian has been moved to a private room- either 305 or 315.

Finances

2009-09-17T06:34:00.000-07:00

As Brian's medical bills begin to be measured in the millions of dollars it is tempting to be overwhelmed - even with the prospect of medicaid assistance.

I spent some time yesterday talking with Pastor Walsh of the Church in the Wildwood about the situation. He assures me that some in the church are helping Jennifer with the maze of paperwork involved in getting Brian onto medicaid. It is evident at this point that Brian needs rehabilitation that will begin to restore his brain and muscle functions. St. Elias seems to be the best place for that but their refusal to take him in was at least in part because of Brian's financial state of limbo at this point. Some of the paperwork hinges on the court assigning guardianship and conservatorship to Jennifer.

We considered setting up a trust or special account so that private assistance toward Brian's bills doesn't become a tax liability to Jennifer. It looks like with the active engagement of Church in the Wildwood, the best way to help Brian financially is through their deacon's fund. Gifts will be tax deductible but it must be clear that to meet Federal standards they can't be specifically designated to Brian. The board of deacons is very aware of the Brian and Jennifer's situation and will and have been doing everything they can to help where most needed.

Gifts can be directed to Church in the Wildwood, Deacon's Benevolent Fund, 16832 Hanson Dr., Eagle River 99577.

As overwhelming as things can look from an individual perspective, let's not forget that God is great, and God is good, and He still knows how to work all these things together for Brian's good and His glory.

I was encouraged the other night from editing the text of Brian's Grandfather Peabody's autobiography. They were newly married in the 1920s and in the ministry and had their rent due the next day. It was $12 dollars. They had nothing. That night a visitor from the countryside stopped and gave them $10 at the prompting of the Lord. The next morning Great Grandfather Peabody (who lived next door) said he had two dollars to help with the rent and would deposit it for them and pay off the rent if they would give him the remaining ten. I think he was amazed when they were able to give it to him!

September 12 Update

2009-09-12T23:25:00.000-07:00

I went in this afternoon to see Brian. I've had a cold so hadn't been in for over a week. There was noticeably less swelling and his eyes were open but you couldn't tell exactly where he was looking. There was still fluid in his lungs. Shayne and Trisha and their girls were there too and Brian was definitely responding to our speech. When I asked if we could pray Brian raised his right hand and we held it while we prayed.

While it is evident that Brian is getting better it is very slow and unless God intervenes measuring his progress is going to be very tedious. May He give us all patience and faith.

New Deck

2009-09-10T09:42:00.000-07:00

Yesterday saw John Vinduska putting the final touches on the grade prior to the ramp going on the deck. Jennifer says Brian keeps making progress.

Bleeker Update 9/8/09

2009-09-09T06:27:00.000-07:00

Brian continues to do well and is progressing each day. Jennifer wanted me to update everyone with an address where you can send cards. Scott and I have continued to receive cards for Jennifer at our address. We've delivered them to Jennifer and she is very thankful. However, she is able to check her mail at home daily, so cards do not need to be sent through us any longer. Her mailing address is:

7968 North Wolverine Rd.
Palmer, AK 99645

Thank you for your continued prayers, encouragement, and support for this family!

Bleeker Update 9/3/09

2009-09-06T13:22:00.000-07:00

On Friday, Brian was moved out of the Critical Care Unit at Alaska Regional and into PCU room 319, a regular hospital room. Visitors are still welcomed and encouraged.

Pray for Karianne and Jennifer as Karianne has not been feeling well over the past few days. Thank you so much for all your prayers and support for this family!

Lost Papers Found

2009-09-03T06:39:00.001-07:00

Those who know Brian will know that one of his ongoing trials has been that he couldn't get a passport. This became very problematic when the borders to Canada and Mexico required passports. With his Commercial Driver's License it meant he couldn't drive through Canada any more.

The reason for no passport was that the naturalization paper was essential and was lost- presumably by the Post Office in some prior application.

Well, in the course of settling mom's estate, we got a bill for a lock box fee at First National Bank and Ray went down to see what was in it. Lo and behold- there was Brian's naturalization paper in the original envelop from the Department of Justice.

Plans on Hold- Bleeker 9/01/09

2009-09-02T09:32:00.001-07:00

Jennifer called last night. Brian was all set to be transferred from Alaska Regional to St. Elias on Monday at 2 PM. However, at the last minute the plans to take him to St. Elias fell through. Jennifer is now working with Brian's caseworkers to try to figure out what the next step is. So, if you'd like to visit, Brian is still at Alaska Regional and will likely be there for a while longer. Please pray for Jennifer and the caseworkers and they work to come up with a plan for Brian's future care.

Bleeker Update 8/29/09

2009-08-31T22:56:00.000-07:00

Scott spoke with Jennifer Sunday night. She says that they will be moving Brian to St. Elias Hospital either today or tomorrow. Alaska Regional has done everything they can to stabilize Brian and St. Elias will now focus on intensive rehabilitation when the time comes that Brian is ready for that.
St. Elias is located at 4800 Cordova Street. Jennifer is not sure of the visiting hours or policies at St. Elias, but she did say that they are very family oriented and they highly encourage visitors as "family and friend involvement plays a crucial part in recovery". Jennifer said she will update the blog as soon as she has visiting information. Please wait for further information.
For more information on Brian's status, please see the blog posts from the past couple of days.

Sunday 8/30/09

2009-08-31T08:10:00.000-07:00

Jennifer reports that Brian was off his ventilator for eight hours yesterday. He was bothered though with hiccups and coughing junk out of his lungs. Jennifer thinks these distractions were making it more difficult for him to make eye contact with her during the day.

Plan is to move him tomorrow over to St. Elias. We will give you details about where that is when the time comes.

8/28/09 Catch UP

2009-08-29T09:42:00.000-07:00

Brian has been through two procedures that still have him pretty groggy. They installed the feed tube directly into his stomach and they installed his breathing tube into his trachea. He is still under the influence of those two procedures and is part of the reason why some visitors were turned away. The Loews and Leo Powell are two that I know of.

On the home front Brian has now been told that his shop is now insulated inside and out. Jennifer isn't sure he comprehended that. Also, Dave Cruz has put Mark Lacross to work doing work on the house. They are building a handicap accessible deck for the house and venting the crawl space and finishing other things inside. Jennifer wasn't ready to move out completely so they could do the sheetrock so that will wait for now.

Ray is working at getting the chimney problems fixed. Will probably involve a metalbestas section installed closer to the house.

As we Agree Together

2009-08-27T06:37:00.000-07:00

As we lift up Brian together today in prayer and fasting I thought I would post the verses that Aunt Francis is hanging on to for Brian. If any of the rest of you want to share what the Lord showed you today- feel free to post comments.

Isaiah 41:10,13- "Don't be afraid, I am with you.

Don't tremble with fear.

I am your God.

I will make you strong,

As I protect you with my arm

And give you victories.

I am the Lord your God.

I am holding your hand,

So don't be afraid.

I am here to help you."

Bleeker Update 8/26/09

2009-08-27T06:32:00.001-07:00

Brian had another very encouraging day. The PEG Tube (feeing tube) procedure went very well with no complications. In addition, this morning, when the nurses were moving Brian, the ventilator tube (the one that he's been chomping on) disconnected and surprise, Brian continued to breath fine at 100%. He didn't hyperventilate and his respirations remained steady. When Jenn came in later in the morning, Brian had no tubes on his face! He's been coughing, but he did alright all day long without the ventilator. The Doctor says they'll plan to do a tracheotomy if necessary, but Brian did fine today with no assistance. At one point, he did start to have difficulty breathing and the nurse went to get respiratory therapy to assist. But when the nurse returned, Jennifer had managed to calm Brian down by singing to him and he was able to bring his respirations under control without medical assistance.

Jennifer says that all day today Doctors and nurses kept taking a double take at Brian. They couldn't believe his progress! Praise the Lord. Jennifer is thankful that someone has provided a CD player for Brian and some hymns for him to listen to. She says he's really enjoyed the music and it has visibly relaxed him. Brian was very tired and groggy from the feeding tube procedure. He slept most of the day, but he is still squeezing with his hands and he's started to groan and make some noise.

The court proceedings this morning were quick and easy. Jennifer was in and out in 10 minutes. She thanks you for your prayers for her.
It sounds like the Doctors are beginning to consider where to move Brian when he is discharged from the Critical Care Unit. His discharge will likely not be for quite some time, but the Doctor that Jenn talked to today is leaning toward moving Brian to St. Elias for rehabilitation. This location would provide Brian with highly skilled staff prepared to deal with neurological rehabilitation. The Doctors don't believe that there is anyplace in the Mat-Su that would be able to provide the neurological rehab that Brian will need. In addition, Alaska Regional doesn't offer the rehab. Jennifer asks that we please pray for wisdom for her and the Doctors as they consider what is best for Brian. She asks that we pray that the medical staff would not make any random, quick draw decisions, but that God would give them wisdom in their decisions for Brian.

Bleeker Update 8/25/09

2009-08-26T06:30:00.000-07:00

Tonight, Jennifer says that Brian is continuing on the path of recovery. This afternoon, they took the drain tube out of his brain. Brian has been squeezing with his hand on command. Jenn was particularly excited because Brian was able to stroke her hand with his right thumb! Brian is responsive enough that the breathing tube is really starting to bother him. He chomps his teeth at it and he starts to panic and gag. If Jenn or the nurse just reminds him to slow down and take deep, slow breaths, he calms back down. Brian will have a procedure tomorrow to remove the feeding tube that is inserted through his nose. There is a risk of continual sinus infections if the tube is left in. Instead, they will be putting a feeding tube directly into his stomach through his side. In addition, they are considering a tracheotomy procedure in order to remove the tube in his mouth. Brian still cannot swallow his secretions, so a tracheotomy or breathing tube is essential.
Tomorrow, Jen goes to court at 9 AM for guardianship. The kids are doing well and they are now staying at home with Jen at night. She's excited to have them back in the house.
Prayer Requests:

-Praise the Lord for the progress that Brian has made.

-Pray for Jennifer's strength. She is running on a very hectic and straining schedule. Pray that God would allow her to stay healthy.

-Pray for the children's understanding and trust in the Lord.
-Pray for the Lord to meet the family's practical needs like the many responsibilities around the house, meal prep, childcare, etc. Praise God for the many, many ways that He has already provided for these needs.

-Pray for financial provision for the many medical bills and praise the Lord for the many, many ways that He has provided for the family's financial needs.

Prayer and Fasting Day- 8/27/09

2009-08-25T06:33:00.000-07:00

Greg Jacobs suggested that we set a day for prayer and fasting for Brian. I talked with Jennifer last night and she thought it was a good idea and suggested Thursday. Lets give that day to God and Brian and watch what He will do.

I visited Brian yesterday morning (Monday AM) and found him asleep. I did not try to waken him. Jennifer said that in the afternoon he was awake and they were communicating with winks. I think one wink was yes and two was no. He also squeezed her hand with both his right and left hand. As far as I know it is the first time his left side has responded.

Yesterday Ray, Gerald, and Jennifer prepared the shop for the final application of urethane that is to happen today- I believe compliments of Darell Greenstreet. Jennifer is also thankful to have a spare tire and rim for her car now compliments of Diversified Tire. She was turned down for medicare. Tomorrow she goes to court for guardianship.

Shayne's Visit- Saturday- 8/22/09

2009-08-24T09:57:00.000-07:00

The last report I got was from Shayne who visited Brian on Saturday. He had not seen the posting about Brian's responses Friday night but he did find Brian's eyes open and he really felt that Brian was communicating with his blinking and was expressing frustration at not being able to do more. The nurse told him that he had been on and off life system support on Saturday.

Bleeker- Waking up- 8/21/09

2009-08-22T06:33:00.000-07:00

Rebecca talked to Jennifer earlier this evening. Jennifer shared that this afternoon Brian opened his eyes and looked around. Tonight, Rebecca and I visited Brian from about 10:45-11:15PM. After I told Jenn about our visit, she asked us to include what transpired in an update.

The nurse shared with us that Brian is completely stable and breathing on his own. After a little while I began to read Scripture to him (2 Cor. 4:16-5:9). Rebecca and I decided to sing a song to Brian called “Before the Throne of God Above”. As I sang (and throughout the visit) I maintained consistent eye contact with him. I noticed that his eyes opened up more than normal and he was blinking. I was so sure that he was aware and looking at me that I had to stop several times and just say hi. His responsiveness definitely increased when we sang to him. I continued talking to him after the song, while he continued to focus his eyes on me. He opened his mouth wide a couple times as if to say something and seemed like he wanted to communicate. I let him know that he would not be able to talk for a while, and that he should take it easy. Meanwhile, Rebecca went to tell the nurse what Brian was doing. She came into the room and began talking to him. She opened his left eye wide and asked him to follow her hand as she moved it side to side—he followed her hand with his eye, first to the right, then to the left. She asked him to squeeze her hand, but I do not think he did. It really seemed that he wanted to talk, and, for a bit, his breathing increased; he was a little worked up. I encouraged him to calm down. In response, he did calm down. After that, he continued to fixate his eyes on me as Rebecca and I reassured him that Jennifer and the kids were doing well and that their needs are being met. We talked to him a little more, prayed with him, and encouraged him to rest and let his body get strong. When we left, he was resting again.

He was definitely responding to us tonight. What a praise to the Lord for answered prayer!

Jennifer says visitors are welcome.

The Meeting that Finally Was

2009-08-21T16:26:00.000-07:00

About 1 PM this afternoon we finally met with Dr Cohen (neurosurgeon) the social worker, and the discharge nurse. Dr Delgatto (the internist who only gave Brian a 10-15% chance of surviving) was not there.

Dr Cohen informed us that Brian's right hemisphere is very damaged. He was cautiously much more optimistic than Dr Delgatto about Brian's survival. He did say that if Brian survives he will probably have a significant amount of impairment on the left side of his body. He did indicate that Brian's brain stem reflexes are working and that it is certainly worth moving him toward recovery. He indicated that with brain injuries like Brian's the immune system is impaired and it is normal to have to deal with fluid on the lungs that can develop into pneumonia as well as urinary tract infections. He indicated that Brian should eventually be able to speak and think normally but would be a candidate for rehabilitation after getting out of the hospital. He anticipates that Brian will be in ICU for a couple more weeks. Brian's body systems are mostly functioning on their own with only occasional assistance from life support. He considers the artificial support as a temporary need.

I think we were all anticipating a much more dismal report and a recommendation to stop life support. We are thankful for hope but painfully aware that at best Brian is in for a lengthy recovery and possibly permanent limitations. On the other hand he could turn for the worse and find himself recovering with Jesus. Of course the option we would prefer humanly is that he would be healed outright here and now.

We can only ask, seek, and knock on heaven's door (with thanksgiving) and patiently wait for the Lord's answer.

Another Meeting that Wasn't

2009-08-21T06:29:00.000-07:00

A number of us met at the hospital but the neurosurgeon, Dr. Cohen, was called into an emergency surgery at another hospital so our meeting was called off. Attempts were going to be made to reschedule for Friday.

Bleeker Update- The Meeting- Thursday, 7 PM, 8/20/09

2009-08-20T06:30:00.000-07:00

I spoke with Jenn today. She said that there hasn't been much change in Brian's condition since the last update. They are still draining fluid off of his brain and his Blood Pressure and pulse are still up and down. Quiet, short visits are welcome and encouraged. She asked me to remind everyone that he is in the Critical Care Unit, fourth floor of Alaska Regional. Visiting hours are from 8:30 AM through 7:00 PM and 8:30 PM through 7:00 AM. After 9 PM, the main doors to the hospital are locked; however, visitors can get in through the E.R. entrance and then go through E.R. to get to the tower elevators to go upstairs.

The family meeting has been scheduled for 7:00 PM on Thursday, August 20. Jennifer asks that we pray for wisdom for all the family members, doctors, and case workers involved and that the family can agree on the decisions that need to be made.
In my interactions with Jennifer, I've been touched by the peace the Lord has given her. She belongs to the Lord; she is His sheep; He is her shepherd, and she just seems to be at peace with her Lord. She trusts in His sovereign care over Brian and her family. I truly believe that the Lord is giving her special grace for the situation she is in. It is evident that the Lord is her comforter in this difficult time. Please continue to pray fervently for her. She is very, very thankful for your prayers.

The Meeting that Wasn't

2009-08-18T18:01:00.000-07:00

It turns out that the meeting we thought we were arranging was actually being arranged by Brian and Jennifer's case worker. There are a lot of players involved so it is not an easy task but will probably take place later this week. The case worker worked with Jennifer today to get guardianship powers through the court. They had neither power of attorney or a will so this will help Jennifer do business.

Ray and Darlene spent a good part of the day at the hospital and it is evident that the prognosis is not good for Brian. We will not know the facts that support that prognosis until we meet with the specialists later this week. Of course there is time and room for God to surprise us all in the meantime. Pray that His will be done on this piece of "earth" named Brian.

Dr. Calls for Family Meeting- Update 1 PM 8/17/09

2009-08-17T15:37:00.000-07:00

The Doctor's report today was very discouraging and asked for the family to get together for a talk. We are tentatively planning to meet with the Dr. tomorrow morning.

Update 8,9 August 15- Sonya Vaughn

2009-08-16T00:27:00.000-07:00

I spoke with Jen this evening and Brian has taken a turn for the worse early this afternoon. There is too much fluid on his brain and the doctors had to insert a tube to drain it. He also has an infection in his lungs. This evening they informed Jen that they would be doing a bronchoscopy. They are planning on washing out the lungs with a saline solution to clean them out.

Jen herself is still having a lot of back pain. She was able to eat a good solid meal this evening and is feeling better in that regards but keep her physical needs in your prayers as she is still driving back and forth and sitting in the uncomfortable hospital chairs.
Her dad flew in last night so he is there with Shirley now and KariAnne and Joseph are staying with them.

Jen told me she was blessed and encouraged by this weeks Grace to You as Pastor MacArthur taught on suffering. God also used another radio ministry on suffering to minister to Jen as she trusts in Him during this time. She is continuing to place her trust in God's sovereignty and relying on Him for her comfort and strength.

Update 9

Jen called me at 10 this evening to let us know that the Bronchoscopy went well and they were able to clean out a lot of the infection. The doctors have said no visitors for Brian at this time.
Please continue to uphold them in your prayers.

Shop Work Party

2009-08-16T00:15:00.000-07:00

Today saw the cleanup of Brian's shop. Doug Prinz, Danny Scheutter, Greg Jacobs, and Ray, Gerald, Billy and Larry DeVilbiss stripped the loose insulation from the shop walls. Les Lorentzen brought out a 43 foot container and we got it all loaded up and hauled away. Meanwhile Brian's father-in-law, Tom, came down from Fairbanks and dug into the semi that was partially disassembled in the old shop and concluded it would take a new cam shaft and a lot more work than anticipated. I think he left it ready the new parts.

Bleeker Update Seven 8/14/09 PM

2009-08-15T06:23:00.000-07:00

I spoke with Jennifer again this evening. She had the following to report on Brian: This afternoon, Brian raised his right arm. His fever was up to 102 degrees. This evening, Jennifer was able to talk to the Doctor. He said that Brian is unresponsive to voice command, but he responds with his right hand when stimulated with a sternum rub. His pupils are back to normal dilation; however, his right pupil is larger than the left. Brian's temperature has fluctuated throughout the day today. They ran cultures and confirmed that the fever is due to a lung infection that could possibly develop into pneumonia. They've put him on an antibiotic to combat the infection. At 6:48 PM tonight, Brian moved his left leg and his fever was lower than earlier in the day. The doctor told Jennifer that Brian is now in a natural, self-induced coma. He is no longer sedated.
Jennifer spent a few hours with the children this morning and she enjoyed that time with them. She's still having a lot of upper back tension and pain. In addition, she's still fighting a bit of nausea. She relayed some specific prayer requests. She asks that we pray for her to be strong in the faith; she asks us to pray that she would have right, God-honoring thoughts and that she would not allow her flesh and emotions to take over. In addition, she asked for prayer for safety during her frequent, late night trips out to the valley; pray that God would keep the moose out of her way.
Quiet visits, kept under 20 minutes are welcome now, as long as, Lord-willing, the antibiotics work to get Brian's lung infection under control.

Billy Visits Brian 8/14/09 8:30 AM

2009-08-14T12:25:00.000-07:00

I (Larry) took Billy in this morning so he could understand a little better what is going on. I'm not sure he recognized Brian but he calmly sat down and waited for me to finish talking to the nurse in charge- Kathy. She said that Brian is now off sedatives but is still on pain meds. He is still unconscious and unresponsive.

If Brian could see this I'm sure he would be duly impressed. The wires and tubes coming out of him are as impressive as any trucks he has rebuilt- and just as clean too.

Bleeker Update Six 8/14/09

2009-08-14T12:21:00.000-07:00

I just got a call from Jennifer. The nurse called her this morning to tell her that they need to give Brian blood. His blood counts are down and his fever is up. He's had a fever around 99 for the last day or so, but it has increased this morning. The nurse also said that he is non-responsive. However, both eyes are responding a little bit. Previously, Jennifer had been told that the right eye was "fixed" and that they could not get any response out of that eye at all.
Jennifer had a good night sleep and is going to spend some time with the children this morning before heading into the hospital for the day.
Please pray for Brian's fever to come down and pray for Jennifer as she works through the many various tasks and responsibilities that she is faced with.

Ray DeVilbiss Visit

2009-08-14T12:19:00.000-07:00

Ray visited Brian yesterday and encountered the doctor. There is still significant brain swelling and too early for any prognosis. The right eye swelling has gone down. They backed off on some of the sedation for 6 hours but the response was not as good as they hoped and the likely pain discouraged any further reduction. Jennifer's mother lives in Palmer and has the children.

August 13 Update-Quiet visits Allowed

2009-08-14T06:12:00.000-07:00

Sonya and Greg talked with Jennifer today and we have many encouraging things
to report on Brian's condition. His blood pressure has stabilized
and his heart rate came down on its own. His condition is now
considered "stable". The swelling in his eye is decreasing, but
they are still waiting for the swelling in his brain to decrease.
  He is on minimal sedatives. The Doctor says they are just waiting
for him to wake up. This morning, he did have some tiny movement in
his fingers. They did perform a full body CT Scan to determine if
there were any other fractures or damage. He does have a minor
fracture in his C1 vertebrae. However, the Doctor believes it is so
minor that it should fuse on its own. The CT scan showed no other
signs of fractures.

Jennifer told Sonya that she is feeling healthy. She is taking
vitamins and she has been able to keep food down. She also said she
had a good night's sleep last night, although she's been getting to
bed around 1:30 each night. She is still wrestling with substantial
back pain and has been traveling home each night to take hot baths
and sleep in her own bed with heat packs.
Jennifer's mom brought the children over last night to sleep at home
with Jennifer. Jennifer said Kari Anne is still pretty quiet, but
both children are sleeping well again. They are still staying with
Jennifer's mom.
How can you help the DeVilbiss family?
   -Pray specifically for the family and for God to be glorified and
honored in them.    -Send Jennifer a Carrs/Safeway gas card or cash/check gift     -Deanna Nelson and Sonya are arranging meals for Jennifer's mom
who is caring for the children and bringing food to Jennifer when
she brings the kids over. We're trying to get together about 3
meals (maybe a couple frozen, but we don't want Jennifer's mom to
have to worry about defrosting and prep too much) and then deliver
meals a few times a week. Please consider preparing a meal and/or
delivering meals to Palmer. Jennifer's mom said that Joseph really
likes pasta.

Now that Brian's condition has stabilized, Jennifer said that very quiet, minimal (no more than 20 minutes) visits are okay.

Updates on Brian's condition

2009-08-13T18:21:00.000-07:00

The following are pasted from Rebecca and Scott Bleeker's updates. They are members of Brian's home church- The Church in the Wildwood.

Monday, Aug 10

Dan has asked me to send out an e-mail prayer request for the Devilbiss family. Today, Brian was doing some painting and had a serious fall. Tonight, he was flown in to Anchorage (Alaska Regional) due to what the doctors believe is bleeding in the brain. Please keep this family in your prayers and prayerfully consider what our church family can do to support and encourage Jennifer and the children this week.

Tuesday August 11

Brian was in surgery tonight for several hours. His condition is critical. Prior to surgery, he was in a very deep coma. The swelling and bleeding in his brain was substantial. The surgeon took a very aggressive approach in an attempt to slow the bleeding and swelling by removing a portion of the skull.
At this time, Brian has been moved to the Intensive Care Unit. The surgeon does not know what condition he will wake up in after they decrease the sedation.
Please continue to pray for Brian's recovery and for Jennifer as she waits. Also, tomorrow I'll talk to Jennifer and try to get a better idea of what her specific needs are. I don't think she had any food, clothes, toiletries, books, Bible, or anything with her. So, perhaps we can put together a nice basket with these items for her if she has a place in the hospital where she can keep them. I'll send out an update tomorrow with more information on how we can help Jennifer.

Wed. August 12

Thank you for the overwhelming outpour of love and support for Brian, Jennifer, and their family! Brian's condition is still critical as he is not completely stable, nor breathing completely on his own. It sounds like the doctors plan to keep him in a medically induced coma throughout the week in an attempt to allow the swelling in his brain to go down. I will send out an update if this changes.
Sonya Vaughn spoke to Jennifer this afternoon. She is quite overwhelmed by the whole situation and she needs some time to think, pray, and process everything. At this time, with Brian's condition so critical, please do not visit the hospital or attempt to call Jennifer. She really just desires time alone right now. The Elders, Deacons, and their wives will be points of contact for updates and for information on how you can help Jennifer. If you have a specific message or question for Jennifer, please talk to Sonya as she will be in contact with Jennifer as needed.

Here are some ways that you can continue to support this dear family (and please do!):

-Please pray for Brian's recovery and healing. Pray that his pain would be limited. If Brian is able to hear and understand, pray that he would also be encouraged and at peace, resting in the Lord.

-Please pray for Jennifer. She is very tired, wrestling with nausea and trying to keep food down, and is suffering from substantial back pain. In addition, she has a lot of decisions to make and many differing advisers. Pray for her strength and encouragement. Pray that she would be at peace. Pray for wisdom as she makes decisions. Pray for those who are close to her to have wisdom and discernment as they seek to help her and advise her. Pray that Jennifer would glorify and honor God as she responds to everything that is going on.
-Pray for Kari Anne and Joseph. They are staying with their grandmother in Palmer and doing much better today. Pray that their little hearts would be encouraged to trust in God in this difficult situation.

-Finances are an issue of concern. Pray for God to be glorified by providing for their needs. Please consider giving toward the family's need. Lori Walsh and Lavonne Bennet are collecting funds to put together a basket for Jennifer and they will be giving her a cash gift. If you'd like to contribute cash toward Jennifer's immediate needs, please talk to Lori or Lavonne.
-If you'd like to give Jennifer a card to let her know you're thinking of her and praying for her, please give cards to one of the Elders or Deacons.
Again, Jennifer is so thankful for all of the love and support.

Thursday, Aug 13

Scott and I spoke with Jennifer this morning. She was finally able to get about 6 hours of sleep last night and felt a little more fresh this morning. Her stomach was also feeling better. In addition, there were some very neat ways that God has provided for specific financial needs.
This morning, there wasn't much news to report on Brian. Jennifer said that the nurses told her his right eye has been "fixed" since he arrived at the hospital. The doctor believes this is due to cornea damage and that he will likely lose some use of that eye. However, the other eye seems to be responsive. Tonight, the doctors planned to begin reducing the sedatives to see what will happen.

The nursing staff has made a decision that Brian's condition is critical enough that they will not allow any visitors outside of family. Brian's blood pressure was spiking whenever he had visitors. Jennifer is also still trying to rest and take care of several business manners. She asks that she still have no calls or visitors, especially since she is sleeping when she can. Furthermore, if she is away from Brian, her phone needs to be free for the hospital to reach her.
If you would like to get a card to Jennifer, please mail it to:
Jennifer Devilbiss
C/O Scott Bleeker
122 Rusty Allen Place
Anchorage, AK 99504

Every couple of days or so, Scott, Dan, or Greg will take whatever cards we receive over to the hospital and drop them off for Jennifer. You can also give a card for Jennifer to Sonya or I on Sunday.

As mentioned in previous updates, financial needs are a concern. Many of you have asked how you can contribute financially. Lori and Lavonne are no longer taking cash donations for a basket. A very nice basket and all the cash donations received so far were delivered to Jennifer yesterday. If you'd still like to contribute, there are a few options. One option is to include a check for Jennifer in a card and mail it to the above address. In addition, Brian's family will possibly be setting up a bank account for donations. I will pass along information on the bank account when it becomes available. Finally, another option is to contribute to the church deacon's fund. Again, I will send out more information (hopefully tomorrow) about contributing to the deacon's fund.
If you are looking for another option to serve, Sonya and Deanna are coordinating meals for Jennifer's mom who is taking care of the children and has also recently had a double knee replacement. Jennifer would really like for Karianne to be able to see Brian. Please pray that the ICU staff would allow that (ICU rules are no one under 12 is admitted).
Please continue to keep Jennifer and Brian in your prayers. Also, praise God for His provision.

The Scene

2009-08-13T09:23:00.000-07:00

Here is the shop. The scissor lift has been lowered but it looks like Brian was finishing the last layer on the last section on the ceiling- a job he has been working on intermittently since the beginning of the year. It had been a problematic project even before his fall because of out of date urethane and freezing temperatures causing it to not stick to the metal.

He had removed the insulation on the ceiling prior to spraying it this time and some of the walls still need to be stripped. We plan to get a team together Saturday to finish stripping the old insulation and loading it out into a dumpster prior to hiring someone to finish the spraying before the drums of chemicals go out of date.